Today’s DESIGN YOUR LIFE is brought to you by Jeanine of AphroChic. As I have mentioned (many times before), Jeanine’s business, textiles, and spirit have inspired me to take Jess LC to the next level. She is also a style and interior design blogger, check out her blog, AphroChic. And she recently did a stint as a Lucky Mag blogger(!!).
Though Jeanine has already gone above and beyond to help guide and support me with my new changes, I couldn’t help but ask her to participate in a DYL. The ability to peek inside her brain and see what principals she values is priceless. What struck me personally about her DYL is the intention to dream big dreams. I’m taking a note out of her book and doing the same myself!
DESIGN YOUR LIFE: Jeanine of AphroChic
Always dare to be different.
Being different is a wonderful thing.Â Since I was a child, I have always been different.Â I was an incredibly outspoken six year old, who loved politics, and dreamed of becoming a minister, a fashion designer and a writer (all at once).Â Why not?Â There were times when I didn’t always accept my difference.Â Why couldn’t I be quieter?Â Why did I have to be so opinionated?Â But now, at 31, living out my dream as a designer, I understand that there is a power in my difference, and a strength in my voice and my vision.Â It’s what sets me a part from everyone else, and what makes my work unique.Â And most importantly, being different and offering a new perspective makes me happy.
Don’t be confined by one vision of who you are and what your life should be.
Life can take you on a number of twists and turns and you can’t be confined by one vision of yourself.Â One day you’re a lawyer, and the next you’re making pillows.Â That’s my story.Â And yes, it seems strange that someone who spent so much time studying political science and law would one day go into textile design.Â But, if I had only allowed myself to be and do one thing, I would not be on this amazing journey I am on now.Â I’ve learned not to be confined by who I “should be”.Â I am open to all of the opportunities that life has to offer.
Dream big dreams, and then make them come true.
I have learned that the bigger the dreams, the bigger the goals and the accomplishments that follow.Â Â I have never been afraid to dream big.Â At the start of every new year I sit at my desk and make a list of my goals for the next 12 months.Â It’s a list of dreams and big thinking for my company and what I want to accomplish.Â It’s a list I constantly revisit and tweak, and it keeps me focused on the big things I want in life.Â Â When you are focused on what you want, when you believe you can and will fulfill your goals, you’ll be amazed about what comes true.
Truth be told, I am a terrible listener.Â I have always been guided by my own thoughts and intuition.Â I never do things by the book, and enjoy thinking outside of the box.Â If I listened to what others said, I never would have changed my career and followed my passion.Â I would not be living a life that fulfills my creative spirit.Â Sometimes, it’s important to know that the most important person to listen to is yourself.
Never go it alone.
My husband is the love of my life and my partner in all things.Â Everything we do, we do together, and it’s his support that helps me reach my goals.Â Whether it’s a partner, a mentor or a friend, it is important to surround yourself with positive influencers, people who push you, who believe in you, and who help you be your very best self.Â I could never have transitioned to this new path or reached my goals alone.Â It’s the support of my partner that helps me make my dreams a reality.
Always have fun.
I have always been a Type A personality.Â For years my life was on a constant path of stress, the need to control, and more stress.Â But now that I’ve discovered a new life as a designer, I want to enjoy what I’m passionate about, and those Type A traits just aren’t fun.Â I spend a lot of time each day working on building a business and brand, but I spend just as much time having fun and enjoying what I do.Â When life stops being fun, when you can’t find the laughter, it’s time to move on to something new.
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