As we head into the summer, a conversation with a friend reminded me of this post from 2012. It’s a nice reminder – and a good laugh. Enjoy!
Okay. Remember this photo?
It’s caused a few waves and I want to do a little follow up. I’ve recently realized through reading and some offhand comments by friends that a few people have been impressed/surprised/envious of my abs.
And after a recent (very kind) post about them, I wanted to share my comment in response.
I hope it is helpful for others as well.
First of all, I will say that though I’m flattered that you like my abs, there are several things you should know about me and that photo before you berate yourself or set yourself up to look like “me” or any other ideal of yourself that you have in your head.
1. While I do have a strong core, I think it comes because I carry most of my weight in my butt. There is a reason you don’t see that in the photo! Lol.
2. It’s not that I’m some super human eating well; I eat burgers, craft beer, and all the rest as frequently as I like, I just don’t overeat (which I used to do). In fact, please go read these two posts:
3. That is simply a good picture, taken in some mystical shade that highlighted my abs. I didn’t edit the photo to make myself look any different, but that shade definitely ended up making my abs look very defined. There are many other pictures we took in different lighting or times of day and they didn’t look that noticeable.
4. Though I used to run marathons and I still run and workout, I don’t do anything crazy. Right now I try to work out 3-4 days a week and I do some light lifting and 30 minutes of elliptical due to the weather outside being cold. But I don’t put any huge focus on my abs, that is just a perk of my body (perhaps to balance out the cellulite on my butt?).
I hope this helps and takes your mind off of too much criticism of your own body.
I’ve fought with my body for nine years of my life and I want nothing more than to help others to find a place of peace with their own bodies.
Because not only is it more peaceful, real, and positive, it also gave me the body you see. I spent years struggling to “lose weight.”
Then, after a lot of prayer, work, and dedication to not obsessing, I actually lost most of the weight I tried to lose for so long.
I love you.
And because I love you all as well, I’m going to share a not-so-ideal photo of me from the exact same trip, that for obvious (vain) reasons didn’t make the blog.
I laugh just looking at it.
No mystical shade highlighting my abs.
No flattering angle.
Though both images are me, one just looks better.
And the problem is if we all think that everyone looks like their best picture we see online, it’s easy to think we don’t measure up.
The truth is everyone is just trying to accept themselves – flaws and all.
May something wonderful happen to you today,
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